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/I am reminded of the many helpful methods in which we can relinquish the cruel mind:
Read MoreI am reminded of the many helpful methods in which we can relinquish the cruel mind:
Read MoreIt’s a cliche but Yoga is a journey; one that has the power to change with you.
Read MoreWith practice and awareness, we can learn to step back and recognise that this is a need that doesn’t serve us and let it go.
Read MoreIf you are finding that you’re forgetting the names of people you know, why you went into a room, what you were talking about mid sentence, if you’re unable to find a word, feeling empty headed or confused, you are not alone. Brain fog effects many women during peri-menopause and menopause but for most, it will pass.
I recently attended an educational workshop on menopause with functional medicine practitioner, Tanya Borowski who is exceptionally knowledgeable. I am also reading a book called Hormone Repair Manual by Lara Briden. These two sources suggest ideas that may help you keep your brain healthy:
Oestrogen therapy. To really benefit, we would be better starting it 5 years before our final period or at menopause at the latest. If the average age of menopause is 51, the best time to start is 46. Neuroscientist Roberta Diaz Brinton suggests in Briden’s book, that taken after menopause, oestrogen therapy may actually contribute to dementia, however more research is needed.
Progesterone is also important for brain health. It supports GABA receptors in the brain. GABA is a mood enhancing neurotransmitter. Together oestrogen and progesterone support many brain functions, including the hippocampus (the memory centre) so it is worth discussing a combination of hormones with your health practitioner when considering HRT.
Diet and lifestyle. Tanya Borowski, says we cannot simply replace hormones without adapting our lifestyle. Both Briden and Borowski recommend that you:
• Reverse insulin resistance (with a Ketone diet).
• Soothe your nervous system.
• Develop healthy sleep habits.
• Minimise alcohol and drink more water.
• Engage in movement of any kind but strength training in particular.
• Take supplements - in particular magnesium and taurine, B12, choline and MCT oil.
The good news from the perspective of Yoga and Mindfulness is that many of the practices we engage in at Birchwood Yoga support brain function. GABA receptors are usually supported by progesterone so when this hormone is lost, we experience raised levels of anxiety and stress. Research by Chris Streeter et al, shows that GABA is released when we practice Yoga. GABA helps promote relaxation and reduces stress, anxiety and even symptoms of PMS according to Lisa Mosconi, author of The XX Brain. Meditation improves brain structure and function and the pace of Slow Mindful Yoga helps build physical strength and mental resilience. In combination with the breathing practices and long savasanas your nervous system gets soothed. Win, win!
Stress comes in many guises so it’s important to understand what might trigger symptoms.
Read MoreAccording to Glennie Kindred, “Beltain is a celebration of the fertility and rampant potency of the life force.” Beltane is one of the Cross Quarter celebrations between the Spring and Summer equinoxes. It is a time to celebrate growth and the vitality of the land.
A few years ago, I had the pleasure of being introduced to these celebrations that resonated far more than religious ones ever have. Pagan history embraced unions at this time and often reenacted the union of the horned god and fertile goddess to ensure a fertile land for growing the years harvest.
Fires were lit at Beltane to cleanse and purify. People used to walk their cattle through the smoke to bless them with health and vitality and couples would jump over the fire to pledge allegiance to one another.
I believe we should embrace every opportunity to celebrate nature. We have a place in it and we are nothing without it. So how might we celebrate Beltane though the Yogic lense?
The three lowest chakras can be seen to reflect the essence of Beltane. The root chakra (Muladhara) forms our foundation. It’s element is earth. The masculine is symbolic of roots penetrating the earth whilst the feminine draws energy and nutrients to flourish into a stable, beautiful form.
The sacral chakra (Svadhisthana) is for movement and flow and represents sexual energy. It’s element is water. The masculine is cleansing (like the fires lit at Beltane). The feminine is receiving and nurturing, she expresses passion.
The solar plexus chakra (Manipura) pertains to energy, strength and will. The masculine is willing and initiating. The feminine represents warmth and radiance.
Life force in Yoga is prana or the breath. Each chakra resonates to a particular sound. The root is Lam, The sacral is Vam and the solar plexus, Ram. Chanting these sounds helps to bring us into balance. Practices that are grounding, hip opening and activating help bring us into balance too. Practicing in nature would be a fabulous way of immersing yourself in the spirit of Beltane.
Hawthorn is the tree of Beltane. In medical herbalism, it is known as the heart herb for its beneficial properties that support the cardiovascular system. Traditionally, prayers were written on rags that were tied to the hawthorn. Perhaps an intention would suffice at the start of your practice. To end you could offer gratitude to mother Earth or offer loving kindness.
To find out more about Beltane and other ceremonies, I recommend reading Sacred Earth Celebrations by Glennie Kindred. More information on the history of Beltane can be found here: https://www.learnreligions.com/the-history-of-beltane-and-may-day-2561657
Acute stress, chronic stress and burnout are three separate states of stress. It’s important to know what they are so you know how to respond.
Read MoreI was so impressed by the body’s ability to rest when supported in the right way,
Read MoreOur ability to adapt to different situations depends very much on the individual. Some of us have a sensitive nervous system that requires nurturing. Others are more robust. The condition of our nervous system is determined to a degree by how stressed our mother was when we were in vitro but is also down to the amount of trauma and stress we have experienced in our life.
When we encounter a stressor, every system in our body responds. In order to return to a state of equilibrium (homeostasis), the nervous and endocrine systems have to adapt. We can help our internal recovery along by building mental strength and flexibility. Having a better understanding of ourselves promotes adaptability.
Write a list of circumstances which make you feel uncomfortable such as confrontation, being in a crowded space, driving on the motorway, meeting new people etc... Nothing triggering. As you write each one down, pause and notice how you feel in your body. What are the sensations? Where are they felt? Notice and be curious. Try not to analyse or push them away.
Now visualise the same scenarios differently:
Breathe deep down into your belly.
See yourself with your shoulders rolled back, your chest open and your head straight.
Clench your fists gently. Does that help you to feel more powerful? If it fuels anger, instead of pushing it away, notice where you feel it and how?
Feel your feet on the ground and ‘root’ down.
What other physical posture could you take?
Make a positive affirmation such as, ‘I can do this’, or ‘I’ve got this.’
Write down how you feel. Check in with your mind, body and breath. You may find it helpful to practice this visualisation before every situation with which you are uncomfortable.
Low level stress actually helps us to adapt. Each time we cope with an uncomfortable situation, we feel empowered and become more resilient physiologically and mentally. To strengthen your ability to adapt:
Step out of your comfort zone regularly.
Notice, change and notice the change.
Remember that thoughts are not facts.
Never base your present fears on past experience; no two situations are the same.
Be prepared to bend your own rules be more flexible; your way isn’t the only way.
Acceptance empowers you.
Do not allow failure to stop you. We learn from our mistakes.
Here are some other tools which you may find helpful:
Slow down - taking life at a slower pace allows us be aware of our experience and to recuperate from the challenges.
Keep a journal - writing down our feelings helps put things into perspective.
Practice gratitude - the brain has a negativity bias so force yourself to recollect the positives.
Spend time in nature regularly; it is proven to calm and ground us.
If you feel you need some support on your journey, I’m here to help. Why not book a Clarity Call and we can chat confidentially about how to take you forwards.
One of the best things about Yoga is becoming more self aware. But is it possible to become too self aware? Self awareness can sometimes be perceived as narcissism. I think there are levels of self awareness, with disassociation at one end and narcissism at the other. In the middle is a healthy balance. So how do you get there?
Disassociation is common when you have spent your life trying to avoid painful feelings; likely from a traumatic experience or chronic stress. The brain’s way of protecting you from the pain is to keep the body in freeze mode and prevent you from feeling. To move beyond this may require talking therapy but at some point we need to connect with the physical feelings in the body. The process can be slow and disquieting but with safety measures in place, the end result is knowing yourself, understanding what these feelings mean and being resourced with skills to manage overwhelm and restore homeostasis.
If we navigate this road mindfully, we can find that middle ground. We can recognise what the body and mind require before it becomes overwhelming and if it does (which it will; life has a way of throwing us a curve ball sometimes), we can learn to be with the experience, not to resist it.
We move into narcissism when we over analyse; spend too much time wondering why we experience one feeling or another and endlessly talking about it. It’s a bit like googling every symptom you have and believing you are ill; the modern form of hypochondria and it’s boring for everyone around you. I know, I’ve been there! And you might too if you’ve been mentally unwell. It’s part of the natural process of getting to know yourself again. The important thing is recognising when to back off and return to the middle ground.
The beauty of being self aware is in the wisdom of the body. When you stay present to your experience, the body will guide you. When I get on my mat, I let my body and my energy guide me to where it needs to go. With support, time and practice, you can too. It’s an amazing place to be and very rewarding too!
Warning, this article may be triggering if you have suffered a sexual assault.
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